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You're Wearing That?By: Deborah Tannen Deborah Tannen's #1 New York Times bestseller You Just Dont Understand revolutionized communication between women and men. Now, in her most provocative and engaging book to date, she takes on what is potentially the most fraught and passionate connection of womens lives: the mother daughter relationship. It was Tannen who first showed us that men and women speak different languages. Mothers and daughters speak the same languagebut
By: Deborah TannenDeborah Tannen's #1 New York Times bestseller You Just Don’t Understand revolutionized communication between women and men. Now, in her most provocative and engaging book to date, she takes on what is potentially the most fraught and passionate connection of women’s lives: the mother-daughter relationship.
It was Tannen who first showed us that men and women speak different languages. Mothers and daughters speak the same language–but still often misunderstand each other, as they struggle to find the right balance between closeness and independence. Both mothers and daughters want to be seen for who they are, but tend to see the other as falling short of who she should be. Each overestimates the other’s power and underestimates her own.
Why do daughters complain that their mothers always criticize, while mothers feel hurt that their daughters shut them out? Why do mothers and daughters critique each other on the Big Three–hair, clothes, and weight–while longing for approval and understanding? And why do they scrutinize each other for reflections of themselves?
Deborah Tannen answers these and many other questions as she explains why a remark that would be harmless coming from anyone else can cause an explosion when it comes from your mother or your daughter. She examines every aspect of this complex dynamic, from the dark side that can shadow a woman throughout her life, to the new technologies like e-mail and instant messaging that are transforming mother-daughter communication. Most important, she helps mothers and daughters understand each other, the key to improving their relationship.
With groundbreaking insights, pitch-perfect dialogues, and deeply moving memories of her own mother, Tannen untangles the knots daughters and mothers can get tied up in. Readers will appreciate Tannen’s humor as they see themselves on every page and come away with real hope for breaking down barriers and opening new lines of communication. Eye-opening and heartfelt, You’re Wearing That? illuminates and enriches one of the most important relationships in our lives.
“Tannen analyzes and decodes scores of conversations between moms and daughters. These exchanges are so real they can make you squirm as you relive the last fraught conversation you had with your own mother or daughter. But Tannen doesn't just point out the pitfalls of the mother-daughter relationship, she also provides guidance for changing the conversations (or the way that we feel about the conversations) before they degenerate into what Tannen calls a mutually aggravating spiral, a "self-perpetuating cycle of escalating responses that become provocations." – The San Francisco Chronicle
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Great resource for authors
Format: Kindle
The book offers a variety of helpful tips from running your own business, filing types, inventory, taxes, and more. I will be referencing it again as it has so much information that I need to look back on.
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
Two issues with the book:
1) Parts of the book sounded like AI. Words like crucial, labyrinth, and the extensive use of bullets left me somewhat suspicious. It’s not a huge deal as it was heavily edited but was noticeable.
2) Formatting of some parts were in all bold which was hard to read. Entire bulleted sections were all bolder instead of just the first sentence. It needed to be updated and I think this was missed.
The book is helpful and a good resource despite these two issues. I appreciated the vast amount of information provided which will be beneficial in the future.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 5, 2025
★★★★★ 5
Good tips for a tax effective life
Format: Kindle
A good outline of how to go about setting up your life in a tax effective way. Worth the read.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 12, 2024
★★★★★ 5
Great and swirl capability and keep warm
Color: White
Love the bottle warmer like that it rotates very affordable . Used with water has keeping warm capability and has a tiny night light wish it was bigger . Can be used for traveling since compact and don’t want to buy a portable one . Just dump water very durability seems like it’ll last you a while but having it for a few months now . Cord I will say a bit short
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Reviewed in the United States on October 10, 2025
★★★★★ 5
Great!
This is a great bottle warmer with multiple options for heating. It works great and heats a 4 oz. bottle on the "quick" setting in a little over 3 minutes depending on how warm you desire the milk to be. The gentle spinning action keeps any portion of the milk from overheating. I am very happy with this product.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 16, 2025
★★★★★ 4
Works, but more desired features wanted
Works well. Love the “shake” feature compared to the last one I had. It actually moves the formula inside of it by spinning the bottle, and to keep it would make the formula heat up faster.
Instructions leave a little to be desired for. Not super clear but you can figure it out.
However I can’t seem to get it to state how much time is remaining, which could be frustrating with a screaming baby in your arms.
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Reviewed in the United States on March 9, 2025
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